Why acknowledging sexism (even inadvertent sexism) is important

8 years ago from Emily Campbell, Design Specialist @ InVision, Mentor at OOOHours and DesignLab

  • Sarah NewmanSarah Newman, 8 years ago

    Another thing that has bothered me at times is when a superior crits a design or method as sexy or hot. Not only is it uncomfortable, it's just not a helpful critique.

    But of course there are tons of little things that happen all the time, and maybe women have learned to not let it bother us, but how many mockups I see with only male avatars or ladies in the office are referred to as girls, even just calling someone or something ballsy. Idk, tons of stuff.

    24 points
    • Tom BradyTom Brady, 8 years ago

      I agree. As a man I find it uncomfortable when someone crits my work as strong, aggressive, or sculpted. Even it it was a sculpting studio, they shouldn't have said that. Someone even said I was cocky, can you believe that?

      14 points
      • Shea MolloyShea Molloy, 8 years ago

        Actually, I do. Even noting the sarcasm.

        1 point
      • Matt SoriaMatt Soria, 8 years ago

        It seems to me that the only contribution this user makes to DN is immature, inflammatory comments...please don't waste your time or anyone else's.

        7 points
        • Tom BradyTom Brady, 8 years ago

          Or shining a light on the other side of the argument.

          7 points
          • Matt SoriaMatt Soria, 8 years ago

            You're hardly shining any light, just adding sarcastic quips. I very much doubt that anyone is gaining any insight, and doubt more that anyone is impressed.

            9 points
    • Tom BradyTom Brady, 8 years ago

      But lucky for you, you're able to voice these concerns and people will listen. If it were me or any other man, we would be told to suck it up and "act like a man".

      8 points
      • Wil NicholsWil Nichols, 8 years ago

        Are you actually asserting that your inability to express discomfort (yes, stemming from hyper-masculine socialization) somehow puts you at a greater social-power deficit than does a history of institutionalized sexism?

        8 points
      • Drew BeckDrew Beck, 8 years ago

        Yes, this is one of the (many) ways that patriarchy also hurts men.

        3 points
        • Wil NicholsWil Nichols, 8 years ago

          Yes, absolutely, it does — but it was phrased so as to detract from Sarah's comment.

          2 points
    • Terry OTerry O, 8 years ago

      Wait, only women can be sexy or hot?? Or are you making a wider point about adjectives used in crits?

      2 points